
Wynne and Vicki at Heart of the Matter kindly invited me on their podcast to talk about Wish I Was Here and its long, winding road to publication.
Before we started recording, Vicki told me she was upstairs reading, got to the end of chapter nine, and yelled, “Shut up!”
Her husband downstairs asked if everything was okay and, “You’re not on a business call, are you?”
I love this story not just because it’s hilarious, but also because that’s the reaction I hope for when readers reach that point–a “Shut up!” or a more general scream of surprise and delight.
That was Vicki’s favorite part of the book, and it’s mine too!
Also happening “off-camera” was the mention of our mutual friend Mark Petruska, who helped me with editing. I realized after we ended that I had somehow managed to not mention him during the podcast. I apologized to him privately in advance, figuring he wouldn’t mind, really, knowing he’s not all about the glory.
He responded in typical Mark fashion: “Oh, I’m ALL about the glory. What a tragic oversight.”
So this public, “Thanks again, good buddy,” will have to do.
And a quick shout-out to one of my earliest blog buddies, Julie Holmes, whom I mention twice for being so kind and helpful in my early writing days.
Here’s the podcast write-up from Wynne
A few years back, Ilsa Rey and her husband came to Seattle and stayed with me and my family. So I’m very confident when I say, Ilsa is the real deal! Reading her books or blog always leaves me smiling because she’s a wonderful combination of witty, charming and smart. In person, that is exactly who she is as well! [Editor’s Note: Whaaaaaat?? Girl, stop! No, sorry, please go on.]
So I loved this wonderful podcast conversation where Vicki Atkinson and I have the privilege to talk with her about her book, Wish I Was Here that will be released on December 23, 2025. We delve into the thrilling narrative where Ana’s best friend Isaac invents an invisibility pill and is kidnapped for it. In a desperate attempt to save him, Ana takes the pill herself, leading to a race against time to find him and secure the antidote before she remains invisible forever.

Ilsa tells us about learning what she didn’t know she didn’t know and how that propelled her through the 10 year process of getting this book published.
We talk about the importance of feedback – even family feedback and how Ilsa used every opportunity like query contests to learn and keep writing.
Ilsa tells us about the process of writing a series and the big picture view of interweaving the parts and pieces. We get a peek into the experts that helped her shape her narrative, and she even visited a prison in order to keep it real!
Ilsa reveals how her aforementioned trip to Seattle helped to fuel some scenes in book three.
And we get the inside scoop and how to order her book for a discount before its release date on 12/23. This is a great episode with a fun author and a great book! We know you’ll love it.
Now go to the post here to listen or on Spotify.
Further resources
Video book trailer for Wish I Was Here: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1Py-B0EbMMmEV3QBsxDHxVX4Pfr3d04wy/view?usp=sharing
YouTube shorts from the episode:
Writing in the Zone: https://youtube.com/shorts/fpD1njEFPUE?feature=share
Pantser’s Series Challenge: https://youtube.com/shorts/Imaw7r0n1B8?feature=share
Elevator Pitch: https://youtube.com/shorts/HCSLKXOJK9k?feature=share
Back to me: My super-duper thanks again to Vicki and Wynne for hosting me. Such fun to connect with blog buddies in a deeper way and in a fun conversation. Mwuah to you both!
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If some cop with a haircut like that one ever pulled me over, I’d tell him “Son, get a **** haircut, you hippie *** commie pinko” and then I’d pull away. Obviously, I’d get chased, forced off the road at gun point, pepper sprayed, probably tased and then arrested. But when I went before the judge, I’d tell him “That cop’s haircut makes him a **** hippie commie pinko” and he’d agree with me and set me free. I’d go on National News extolling the virtue of our justice system and I’d say “I owe it all to Ilsa Rey who inspired me” and then BAM, you’d sell 1 kajillion booksl
So once I find a hippie *** commie pinko cop, you’re all set! 😉
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Start patrolling the streets for a traffic cop like that, honk your horn to be sure he notices you, then peel off, hitting 80 in a 35 zone. This is a great plan, Bookie. Thanks for sacrificing for me like this. You’re a true friend!
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That’s a good plan! Operation *** Hippie Commie Pinko is A Go.
And we have plenty of 35mph zones around here so I don’t see how it can fail.
Friends do what they have to. If you ever see a *** Hippie Commie Pinko, you can throw a book at him and tell him your friend Bookie was your inspiration 😉
On a completely unrelated note, has your site been scraped by bots this year?
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I’m glad we have this plan fully fleshed out now!
Scraped by bots? What do you mean?
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Have you had unusual amounts of views any days or weeks in the last couple of months, something that is a massive spike?
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Don’t think so. I had to look at my stats, which I rarely do. Didn’t see any huge spikes. Why, what’s happening? Are robots taking over blogs now? Should I start writing about how great AI is (cough, hurk!) so they think I’m a friendly and leave me alone?
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People are getting scraped and having thousands upon thousands of views in just hours. There’s been a lot of complaints on the forums and I know a couple of bloggers who have told me. One blogger has gotten almost 100,000 views in the last 1-2 months.
I ask because I’ve avoided it but want to find out how wide spread it is.
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And what does getting scraped mean? So these are robots doing weird stuff? Please forgive my ignorance. This is obviously news to me.
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They are sucking up all your posts and the creators of the ai use the posts to train the ai.
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Yes, Google and Meta have all suppressed me in one way or another. The AI boogeyman is real, and it is no fun to have them put their sights on you, whether you are a microblogger like me or a larger audience. I have a complicated relationship with AI. While I wish the Pandora box had stayed closed… now that it’s open, it’s not going to close. I believe we can continue advocating for artistas, using it with caution cause they’re farming us hardcore, and whenever possible, do activities away from the Grest Machine. For example, we are working on a family band. While we buy all the instruments, organize our home, etc., I wrote some songs and have used AI to create simple melodies. This quality will not be surpassed when we finally record. How do I know? Because of what the Gibli studio head said in the mid-1990s, and implied.
My interpretation was that his disgust when he worked in his Japanese studio suggested that they use a machine instead of working by hand. He had so much disgust that his workers would dare believe a robot 🤖 could produce anything of high quality on its own, comparable to what a human could. I never display the finished work of my children. Why? CAUSE AI WILL SCRAPE THEIR TALENT. Even though there are tools 🔧 to protect art, I don’t think there are enough protections in place. Keep fighting the great fight of our generation, for love, dignity, and respect of the art community, y’all. Blessings 🙌
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X.com as well
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Hard to think what terrible things AI would be learning from me. 😛
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That our world is inhabited by *** hippie commie pinko cops? That right there would be enough to drive some machine insane and to go invent the terminators to deal with us 😉
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Whew! Good thing they haven’t found my blog yet then!
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Ahhh! I love that you included that fun aside at the beginning – it was a total ‘shut up’ moment. Wowza! Your book…IS SO GOOD. A total joy to read and I can’t wait for what comes next. Get busy, okay? Sending loads of love for your continued success…and thank you for spending time with us! xo! ❤️😊❤️
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Was very honored by the invite. 🙂 ❤
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❤️❤️❤️
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Loved it 😍 🎉🎉🎉
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Thanks, Cindy. 🙂
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Always!!! 🩷🎉
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❤
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this was a great interview and I will be writing up my own review soon. now I have a backstory of the backstory, even better!
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Ha! Wonderful, Beth. You’re the best. ❤
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Oh, I suppose I can let you off the hook, thanks to this very public apology. 🙂
I can’t wait to listen to this one! It’ll be my Tuesday morning commute jam.
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Jam. Haha! I’d love to see you rocking out in your car to a podcast. Get down with your bad self, Mark. I want to see a video of that: you at a stop light, breaking out some funky seated dance moves to a backdrop of W, V, and my voices just talking normal.
I’m glad my apology was accepted. Phew!
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Yay!!! Now I know what your voice will sound like on all your future talk show visits.
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Haha! Yes! And don’t forget the lap cats, Andrew. No lap cats, and I walk!
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Knowing what your voice sounds like is satisfying, Ilsa.
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Haha. Thanks, Tim. Who knew that would actually be a draw?
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😍
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Very cool! Congrats. I hope you’ll remember us little people when they are bringing the dump truck loads of money to your house for you to roll around in.
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That made me laugh out loud. Fairly certain that’s not going to happen, Herb, but if it does I will think of you rather than forget you.
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Love this podcast episode with you, Ilsa!! And great thing you remembered to thank Mark here – what a glory hound. 🙂 < ❤ ❤ And you book – so much fun to talk about it with you! Great book!!
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“Glory hound”! Ha! That’s excellent. It’s great having mutual blog friends. 😛 Thank you again, dear friend!
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That was fun to listen to, Ilsa. Congrats
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Thank you, tref! 🙂
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At least Mark finally got a mention, LOL
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That’s really what it’s all about–keeping Mark happy. If he’s angered, he might erupt in a cheese curd fountain. That would be both messy and delicious.
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Mark cannot erupt until he makes it to SoCal! And congrats of your book finally making it onto shelves!
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Soooo…. not to dampen your dream, but I’m making plans to visit the Midwest, including Casa MarTar, which means he’s one person less motivated to come to SoCal. Very sorry! But, hey, we may fly through LAX. Any chance you’re near there?? Or let’s just meet for a meal in the middle! I know I’m no Mark but a slightly less cool, less funny, but more violent second? Do I know how to sell it, or what? Feel free to take this to email if you’d like. ilsareyauthor at gmail.
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I am not far from LAX as the crow flies. But as the traffic creeps? Light years away!
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Haha! Great way with words, and I getcha.
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Shut up! You got to do a podcast? How cool is that! And I love, love, love the book trailer!
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Thank you! That trailer was pretty great. I have good helpful friends.
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Ooh! I look forward to listening to this1
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I hope you enjoy it, TTA. 🙂
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So cool! But, but… when can we read about BJJ again? I miss that! 😉
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I know. I need to explain myself soon.
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Did I ever mention how I burst with pride whenever I think of your writing & publishing journey? You work so hard to share your joy with the world. This podcast is another step in the process and I am so very pleased for you!
P/S I feel you on the omission of mentions and credits. You are surrounded by caring and generous people, so I know they get it.
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Ju-Lyn, you are a spectacular human being, and I am so blessed to know you.
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